The Ultimate 2026 Guide to Valentine’s Day Events for NYC Singles
Valentine’s Day in NYC doesn’t have to mean awkward first dates, overpriced tasting menus, or swiping on dating apps while surrounded by couples. If you’re single, newly single, or just open to meeting someone new, Valentine’s Day is one of the best nights of the year to meet other NYC singles in real life.
From curated speed dating to high-energy singles parties, here are the top Valentine’s Day events for NYC singles in 2026, all hosted by Single and the City — NYC’s go-to for real-life dating experiences.
Pre Valentine’s Day Gen X Speed Dating for NYC Singles (Ages 45-55)
📅 [Tuesday, February 10th 2026] | ⏰ [7:00pm]
📍 [Bar Avant @Olly Olly Market in Chelsea] | New York, NY
Gen X Speed Dating (45–55) is back just in time for you to line yourself up a date for Valentine’s Day. Real conversations, zero apps, and people who know what they want.
You’ll rotate through a series of short, face-to-face 3-minute speed “dates” with other NYC singles in your age range in a fun, social setting. No stress— just real connections.
👉 Register here:
https://singleandthecity.com/event/valentines-day-events/
Pre Valentine’s Day Speed Dating for NYC Singles (Ages 25-39)
📅 [Friday, February 13th 2026] | ⏰ [7:00pm]
📍 [Clinton Hall Midtown on 51st street] | New York, NY
This Pre Valentine’s Day speed dating event in NYC is perfect for singles who want to meet like-minded people without the pressure of traditional dating or endless messaging. Be social and maybe line up a date for actual Valentine’s Day.
You’ll rotate through a series of short, face-to-face conversations with other NYC singles in your age range in a fun, social setting. No apps, no guessing — just real connections.
👉 Register here:
https://singleandthecity.com/event/valentines-day-events/
Valentine’s Day Speed Dating for Gay Men in NYC (25 & Over)
📅 [Saturday, February 14th, 2026] | ⏰ [5pm]
📍 [Bar Avant @Olly Olly Market in Chelsea] | New York, NY
This Valentine’s Day speed dating event for gay men in NYC brings together NYC men ages 25 and over for a fun, inclusive night of fast-paced connections over craft cocktails.
Expect great energy, a welcoming crowd, and easy conversations that make meeting new people effortless — whether you’re looking for romance, chemistry, or simply expanding your social circle.
👉 Register here:
https://singleandthecity.com/event/valentines-day-events/
Anti Valentine’s Day Singles Party in NYC (Ages 21-45)
📅 [Saturday, February 14th 2026] | ⏰ [9pm to 2am]
📍 [5th & MAD] | New York, NY
This Valentine’s Day singles party in midtown NYC is ideal for singles who want a fun, upbeat alternative to a traditional Valentine’s date or staying home alone watching a Lifetime movie of the week.
You’ll mix, mingle and dance the night away with other eligible New York singles 21-45. This will be the largest singles event taking place in the city on Valentines Day.
👉 Get tickets here:
https://singleandthecity.com/event/valentines-day-events/
40 & Over Valentine’s Day Singles Party in NYC
📅 [Saturday, February 14th 2026] | ⏰ [8pm to 12am]
📍 [American Whiskey Midtown Bar] | New York, NY
Join 100+ NYC singles in their 40s, 50s, and 60s for a relaxed evening designed for real connection. No loud crowds or awkward bar scenes — just genuine conversation in a cozy, comfortable setting. Enjoy a light icebreaker to get things flowing and meet like-minded singles who are actually there to connect. It’s an easy, enjoyable way to celebrate Valentine’s Day and make new connections.
👉 Grab tickets here:
https://singleandthecity.com/event/valentines-day-events/
