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Amber Soletti | Founder of Single and the City

Amber Soletti is a NYC dating expert, singles events expert and modern dating expert with nearly two decades of firsthand experience in New York City’s dating scene. As founder of Single and the City, Amber has produced thousands of speed dates, singles parties, matchmaking experiences and social events, giving her a unique, real-world perspective on dating trends, dating app fatigue, singles culture and how people actually connect today.

A sought-after New York dating expert for television, media and production companies, Amber provides expert commentary on modern dating and relationships and serves as a dating show consultant for television, streaming, casting and entertainment projects.

Media Appearances & Consulting Credits

Amber has consulted, cast, produced, or appeared in projects connected to:

  • Netflix
  • Entertainment Tonight
  • CNN
  • CNN’s Inside Man
  • Oxygen Network
  • Howard Stern
  • Dateline NBC
  • Total Divas
  • The Today Show
  • The Tyra Banks Show
  • The Meredith Vieira Show
  • The Bethenny Frankel Show
  • America’s Got Talent
  • Impractical Jokers
  • Mob Wives
  • The Real Housewives of New York
  • What Not to Wear
  • The New York Knicks
  • Exxxotica
  • National radio shows, podcasts, live events, and digital media outlets

Areas of Expertise

NYC Dating & Modern Dating Expert

Amber provides expert commentary and insight on New York City dating, modern dating culture, dating trends, dating app fatigue, attraction, chemistry, relationship dynamics and the changing ways singles meet and connect.

  • Modern dating trends
  • Dating app fatigue
  • Relationship dynamics
  • Singles culture
  • In-person dating experiences
  • Gender dynamics
  • Attraction and chemistry
  • Dating First Responders (Firefighters, EMS, Cops & more)

Singles Events & Speed Dating Expert

Since founding Single and the City in 2008, Amber has produced thousands of real-world dating experiences:

  • Speed Dating NYC
  • Singles Parties NYC
  • Rooftop Singles Events
  • LGBTQ+ Dating Events
  • Matchmaking Mixers
  • Networking Events
  • Silent Discos
  • Yacht Parties
  • Large-Scale Social Experiences

Dating Trends & Dating App Fatigue Expert

After nearly two decades interacting directly with singles, Amber offers a firsthand perspective on how dating has changed — from the rise of dating apps and swipe fatigue to the renewed demand for speed dating, singles events and IRL connection.

  • Real-world relationship behavior
  • Human connection
  • Social interaction trends
  • Community-building experiences
  • Icebreakers and creating engagement
  • Dating event strategy

Dating Show & TV/Film Consultant

Amber works with television networks, streaming platforms, producers and casting teams as a dating show consultant and singles expert, providing expertise in dating-show development, casting, social experiments, matchmaking experiences, audience engagement and real-world dating dynamics.

  • Reality TV consulting
  • Dating show development
  • Casting singles
  • Audience engagement strategy
  • Event production consulting
  • On-camera relationship commentary
  • Live event execution
  • Social experiment ideation

Why Media & Brands Work With Amber Soletti

Amber’s expertise is rooted in real-life interaction, not just theory. Through producing thousands of live dating experiences and singles events, she has gained firsthand insight into how people connect, flirt, communicate, and build relationships in today’s world.

Her ability to blend entertainment, psychology, social trends, nightlife, and human connection makes her a valuable resource for:

  • Television producers
  • Castings
  • Streaming platforms
  • Journalists
  • Brands
  • Podcasters
  • Corporate event teams
  • Production companies
  • Lifestyle media outlets

Contact Amber Soletti

For media inquiries, speaking opportunities, television projects, castings, consulting, partnerships, or event collaborations, please contact Support@SingleAndTheCity.com

Speaking & Media Opportunities

Amber is available for:

  • Television appearances
  • Podcast interviews
  • Dating trend commentary
  • Relationship expert segments
  • Corporate speaking engagements
  • Brand partnerships
  • Event hosting
  • Media consulting
  • Casting & talent outreach
  • Consulting on dating/singles event productions
  • Live panel discussions